From start to finish, we offer an elevated, hands-on planning experience, deeply rooted in understanding your unique love story and vision for your day. Our full-service planning is ideal for couples seeking a seamless, stress-free journey, where every decision is made with care, ensuring it aligns with your most important desires.
every unforgettable wedding starts with an authentic connection
Full Service Planning
Your wedding is not just an event—it’s a deeply personal milestone that deserves to be celebrated with intention and meaning. With our expertise and personal touch, we ensure that every detail—from venue selection to the final send-off—is crafted to reflect what matters most to you, allowing you to focus on enjoying this special time with family and friends.
Our planning experience is both highly structured and deeply personalized. We begin by getting to know you—your vision, values, and preferences—so we can offer tailored advice and recommendations that reflect your authentic style. As we move through the planning process, we stay in close contact with you, ensuring every decision aligns with your vision while providing expert guidance to elevate the experience. Investment starting at $15,000+
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PLANNING process
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Plan with Purpose
We provide a clear and thoughtful planning structure, with customized milestones and check-ins designed around your specific timeline. Each meeting has intention, guiding you through important decisions with clarity, support, and expert perspective—ensuring no detail is overlooked.
Orchestrate Every Detail
As plans evolve, we take full ownership of the logistics. We manage timelines, budget oversight, guest accommodations, transportation, and more—with precision and care. You’ll have access to a private planning portal with curated tools and resources, and we tailor communication to your comfort and preferences so you always feel supported.
Deliver the Moment
On your wedding day, our team is fully present and impeccably prepared. We oversee every element—from final installations to on-the-ground coordination—ensuring your day flows effortlessly. Our calm, composed presence allows you to be fully immersed in the experience, confident that everything is being handled with grace and intention.
Establish Connection
We begin by building a foundation rooted in trust, curiosity, and genuine connection. Through thoughtful conversations, we uncover your story, your values, and your vision for the celebration ahead. This step allows us to serve not just as planners, but as thoughtful collaborators who truly understand what matters most to you.
Curate with Care
With a deep understanding of your goals and aesthetic, we guide you in selecting the ideal venue and a tailored team of top-tier professionals. From florists to photographers, musicians to caterers, each recommendation comes from our refined network of creative partners—ensuring a cohesive, elevated experience from the very beginning.
Design for Emotion
More than a visual concept, we approach design as an emotional journey—considering not only how your wedding will look, but how it will make your guests feel. Together, we create a meaningful, immersive experience that reflects your style and evokes a sense of awe, warmth, and delight throughout the celebration.
"I CANNOT THANK ALI ENOUGH FOR MAKING OUR DAUGHTER AND HER FIANCÉ’S WEDDING DAY AT THE OCEAN HOUSE THE BEST IT COULD POSSIBLY BE. IT WAS PERFECTION."
During the planning stage she was so generous with her time to meet, text or jump on a phone call. Ali was so knowledgeable and professional, she guided and assisted us in our choices for all the events of the wedding weekend, the Welcome Party, the Wedding Ceremony, Wedding Reception and also the Farewell Brunch. Her ideas were impeccable.
Six weeks from the event Ali took over all communications with our vendors which was a huge relief for us. On the day of the wedding she worked tirelessly to ensure that every detail was executed flawlessly just as the bride and groom had envisioned. Thanks to Ali and her assistants, we had the most perfect, stress free day possible, our guests had an amazing time and we were showered with compliments.
I highly recommend Alexandra Denniston and Eventlightenment Planning for assisting with planning your perfect wedding day or event.
-Kristine
Watch Hill, RI
"When we met Ali we truly began to relax and enjoy the planning as she has the knowledge, experience, ingenuity, calm demeanor and professionalism to make every situation enjoyable."
From the beginning, she listened carefully and provided options while always respecting our vision for the wedding. Most impressively, she had an answer for everything. From the best vendors, to accommodations, menus and timetables, Ali worked through every detail with us. She spent extra time exploring rehearsal dinner venues, the ceremony location and how best to handle guests with special circumstances. We benefited from the excellent relationships she has established with Rental companies, musical production companies, videographers and transportation companies.
She truly could point us in the best direction at every turn. Her constant follow up and attention to detail ensured that everything was under control. Even while managing other events, Ali was always responsive and happy to talk. She was thorough, honest and reassuring.
The best planning can still be thrown a curve on the wedding day. As a very nervous mother of the bride, I’m not sure I would have made it without Ali. Of course everything was wonderful, but I only relaxed because of her confidence, her command of every aspect of the day and her ability to be everywhere at once. Any question was answered. Any need was addressed. Most importantly the bride and groom as well as our guests had the most amazing time.
Alexandra is the rare professional who combines expert knowledge of her business with an engaging, supportive personality. We looked forward to meeting with her and knew that we were receiving the best assistance. She enjoys her work and the people she works with. I have every confidence that anyone who has the pleasure of planning an event with her will be thrilled with the outcome.
-Susan
Client, October 2019
"Ali made our wedding planning experience completely stress-free."
She was extremely organized, paid great attention to detail and was always very quick to respond to my emails (which were constant!). She always had great recommendations along the way that were very helpful. The day of the wedding was absolutely flawless, as the bride - I trusted her completely and felt no need to stress. I knew I could just sit back and enjoy my big day, which is exactly what I did thanks to her! I would highly recommend her for anyone looking to plan any sort of event/wedding.
-Courtney + Matt
Clients, August 2019
"You made the bride’s dream day a reality."
I want to tell you this has been a year of weddings for us. We will soon attend the fourth wedding since we worked with you and none of the venues, staff, or cuisine can compare with Kevin and Lakie’s wedding. Anne and I remain forever grateful to you and your team for that wonderful day. You made the bride’s dream day a reality. The more I see of what is out there the better I appreciate the value and wisdom of our decision to work with you.
John + Anne
Clients, August 2018
Frequently Asked Questions
It all begins with a conversation. We want to understand who you are, what matters to you, and how we can make this experience unforgettable. From there, we’ll walk you through the next steps and begin building your personalized planning roadmap.
Yes. While we are based in Rhode Island, we serve couples around the world and love crafting experiences in new and meaningful locations. Whether it’s a private villa abroad or an iconic city venue, we bring the same elevated standard of care and detail no matter where we go.
How do we get started?
Our full-service planning is a comprehensive, start-to-finish experience. We manage every aspect of the planning journey—from vision development and vendor curation to budget management, design, guest logistics, and day-of execution. Our process is deeply personalized, allowing you to enjoy the journey while we handle the details with care, precision, and expertise.
What exactly does full-service planning include?
That’s entirely up to you. Some of our clients love to be part of every creative conversation; others prefer to review curated options and make high-level decisions. We tailor the process to your preferences while keeping you informed and empowered throughout
How involved will we need to be in the planning process?
We have a trusted network of industry-leading professionals who align with our high standards for service and creativity. That said, our recommendations are always based on what’s best for your vision and values. If you already have someone in mind, we’re happy to explore the fit together.
Do you only work with your preferred vendors?
We don’t believe in copy-and-paste weddings. Every celebration we design is intentionally created to reflect your story, style, and the emotional experience you want your guests to have. Our design approach blends aesthetics with experiential elements that evoke awe, joy, and connection.
How do you ensure our wedding is different from others?
Absolutely. Many of our clients plan from afar, and we’re well-versed in making the process seamless. With thoughtfully scheduled meetings, detailed digital tools, and flexible communication methods, you’ll always feel supported and in-the-know—no matter where you’re based.
We’re planning from out of state (or out of the country). Can you still work with us?
We prioritize open, clear, and consistent communication. You’ll have access to multiple channels depending on your comfort and preferences, along with a tailored planning structure that includes milestone meetings, deadlines, and check-ins so you always know what’s coming next.
How do you structure communication throughout the planning process?
We believe a remarkable wedding isn’t just seen—it’s felt. We consider every touchpoint your guests will encounter, designing moments that spark delight, create engagement, and leave lasting impressions. From logistics to ambiance, we design with intention and feeling.
What’s your approach to guest experience?
We recommend reaching out as soon as you're ready to begin. Our calendar typically fills 12–18 months in advance, especially for popular dates and destination events. Early booking ensures we can reserve your ideal vendors and guide you from the very first step.
When should we book you?
Do you offer destination planning?
